To answer or send to voicemail, that's the question.

In the unique tapestry of my Catholic Parrothead’s life, where the free-spirited melodies of Jimmy Buffett blend with the solemn echoes of faith, the personal feeling of loss when someone avoids your phone call becomes a poignant metaphor. This experience, familiar yet often understated, can offer deep insights when contrasted with the nature of divine communication. 

Imagine you’re reaching out to someone, and they consistently avoid your calls. Each time it happens, a small thread of disconnect weaves into your relationship. There’s a sense of loss, a feeling of being undervalued or unheard. It’s like sending out a signal that keeps bouncing back, leaving you questioning the bond, or worse, doubting your own worth in the eyes of the other. Are they OK? Did I do something wrong?

Now, flip this scenario to your relationship with God. In the Catholic faith, God’s call isn’t a ringtone or a vibration; it’s a gentle, persistent tug at the heart, a whisper in the quiet moments of life. It’s in the beauty of a sunset, the words of scripture, or the peace found in prayer. But just like the ignored phone calls, there’s a profound sense of loss when this divine communication is overlooked. 

The key difference here lies in the nature of the caller. When a friend avoids your call, it’s a human reaction, bound by human limitations and frailties. There might be a hundred mundane reasons - they’re busy, distracted, or perhaps dealing with their own issues. But when it’s about God, the avoidance often stems from within us. It's our preoccupations, our fears, or sometimes, a simple reluctance to step into the quiet space where such calls are heard. 

For me, as a Catholic Parrothead, this contrast is even more striking. On one side, there's the high-spirited world of Buffett songs, a world that celebrates the here and now, often drowning out quieter, subtler voices. On the other, there's the introspective, reflective path of faith, inviting me to listen, to connect on a level that goes beyond the immediate. 

The personal loss felt when your calls are ignored becomes a mirror, reflecting how you might be inadvertently treating the calls from your faith. It’s a reminder that just as you long to be heard and acknowledged in your human relationships, there's a deeper part of you yearning to connect with something greater, something eternal. Perhaps it's a reflection of the Golden Rule, Matt 7:12 "Do to others what you would have them do to you."

In this light, each missed call, be it from a friend or from your faith, is not just a moment of loss, but also a call to awareness. It’s an invitation to balance the vibrant, joyous life of a Parrothead with the contemplative, soulful journey of a Catholic, to tune into both the laughter of the party and the silence of the prayer, and to respond to all calls with an open heart. Afterall, eventually we'll bump into the caller and have to account for our actions/inactions...

To much of a good thing?

Without a doubt, the modern world has enhanced the human experience. We have so much more than our ancestors could've ever considered. Within arms reach we have access to more information than a singular library, and food that is readily available at the click of a button. It's these two things that I feel as calling of fast. Moreover, on Friday, October 27, 2023, Fr Michael O'Connor of Our Lady of the Gulf presented a homily highlighting the need for fasting. 

"Growing in holiness and self-control can be attained through prayer, fasting, and almsgiving."

I've decided to take a 'mental and physical vacation,'. I want to declutter my mind and body to focus on what really matters in life—my relationship with God, my health, and the meaningful connections I have with people.

My Motivation:

1. Spiritual Alignment: Just we fast to grow closer to God and seek spiritual nourishment, I’m fasting from social media and junk food to foster my spiritual and physical well-being.
2. Personal Serenity: Jimmy Buffett's music often centers on themes of relaxation and introspection, stepping away from the chaos to find you own personal 'Margaritaville.' For me, this fast is my own way of finding that peaceful space.

The Method:

1. Food Fasting: In the Catholic tradition, fasting from food is a form of penance and self-discipline. For me, avoiding junk food isn’t just a physical health move, but also a spiritual one. It's about exercising self-control and focusing on healthier sustenance, both for the body and soul.
2. Social Media Fasting: Much like how Buffett's songs urge us to 'breathe in, breathe out, move on,' I’m breathing out the toxicity and distractions of social media. I want to reorient my attention towards more positive and spiritually uplifting activities.

The Balance:

In the Parrothead lifestyle, it’s all about balance—knowing when to kick back with a margarita but also recognizing when it's time to focus on the more serious aspects of life. My fasting journey mirrors this balance. I’m not completely shunning food or technology; I’m simply reevaluating what I consume, both physically and mentally.

In a society that often promotes consumption—whether it be of food, information, or material goods—fasting serves as a countercultural act. I'm sending my own personal message, both to oneself and to others, that we are not solely defined by what we consume. In a world filled with distractions and temptations, fasting, be it from food or social media, provides a pathway to a different kind of fulfillment—one that is spiritual in nature and rooted in a deeper understanding of oneself and one's faith.

So I'm saying goodbye to TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, X (Twitter), LinkedIn, and other social media networks until Christmas.

Holy Name Society Rosary

I love New Orleans, the food, the culture, the people, what a magnificent place. In fact, over 300 years ago, Jean Claude Favre landed there as a Louisiana soldier. For over 75 years, the Holy Name Society has been broadcasting the rosary over the airwaves, and it's one of my favorite rosaries to hear. Instead of the constant drone of some many monotonous rosaries, this intermixes the gospel throughout the mysteries to keep you focused on the scene. I can honestly say that each time I hear the sorrowful mystery, my heart aches as I'm placed there at Jesus' passion.

The Rosary of the Holy Name Society, originating from a culturally rich place like New Orleans, offers a unique blend of traditional devotion and local flair. For a Catholic Parrothead like myself, this blend serves as a wonderful enrichment of their spiritual life. Here are some of my favorite points about their rosary.

Fusion of Tradition and Culture

Much like how Buffett’s music blends country, rock, and Caribbean influences, the Holy Name Society's Rosary reflects the gumbo of traditional Catholic practices with the specific cultural character of New Orleans. This blend calls to those of us who appreciate a mix of tradition and local flavor.

Communal Prayer

Parrotheads love the community, and participating in a Rosary session with the Holy Name Society in New Orleans brings together people from various walks of life. The communal nature of the Rosary can parallel the sense of belonging and togetherness found in the Parrothead community. A group rosary before mass is a way for us to call out to our Blessed Mother in one voice, and petition her intercession in our lives.

Meditative Depth

The Rosary is a contemplative prayer that invites deep reflection on the mysteries of the faith. In the same way that some of Buffett's more introspective songs can prompt personal reflection, the repetitive, meditative aspects of the Rosary offer an opportunity for deeper spiritual introspection. Unlike many others, the intermingling of scripture throughout the Rosary syncopates the doldrum we can find ourselves trapped into with a traditional one.

Musical Resonance

New Orleans is known for its music as much as it’s known for its faith practices. The musical traditions of the area could add a unique auditory aspect to the Rosary, perhaps in the form of hymns or other devotional songs. In their recording, you'll hear the distinctive accents of the Garden District, Uptowners, and even the Y'atty twang.

I'd like to encourage you to listen to the Rosary of the Holy Name Society in New Orleans, due to it's rich, multifaceted spiritual experience. It's like a wonderful "setlist" for the soul, featuring "tracks" of devotion, community, and deep reflection, all set against the vibrant backdrop of New Orleans' unique cultural, dialect, and religious landscape.

Check out their website and take a listen for yourself. Better yet, if you're in or around NOLA, listen on air 600AM at 6pm.

Incident or Accident, it all depends

Brothers and sisters:
I know that good does not dwell in me, that is, in my flesh.
The willing is ready at hand, but doing the good is not.
For I do not do the good I want,
but I do the evil I do not want.
Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it,
but sin that dwells in me.
So, then, I discover the principle
that when I want to do right, evil is at hand.
For I take delight in the law of God, in my inner self,
but I see in my members another principle
at war with the law of my mind,
taking me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.
Miserable one that I am!
Who will deliver me from this mortal body?
Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord. - Romans 7:18-25a

Today's passage from Romans by the Apostle Paul could be likened to a sailor who's lost at sea, even when he knows where the shore is. Just as we appreciate Jimmy Buffett's music for its themes of escapism and the complexities of human desire, Paul's letter speaks to the complicated, sometimes contradictory nature of human behavior. The desire to escape to "Margaritaville" might be strong, but one must also navigate the "Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes" that life inevitably brings.

In Catholic theology, the term "concupiscence" refers to the inclination to sin that is a consequence of Original Sin. Concupiscence itself is not considered a sin, but it makes individuals more susceptible to sin. It's the proverbial "wind" that pushes the "sailboat" of human nature into potentially treacherous waters. This concept aligns closely with the Apostle Paul's reflection on the struggle against sin in Romans.

Concupiscence covers a range of desires that are not aligned with divine law, whether those are desires for physical pleasures, material goods, or forms of emotional or social validation that lead one away from a virtuous life. According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church, concupiscence "stems from the disobedience of the first sin" and "unsettles man’s moral faculties" (CCC 418). It acts as a sort of "moral gravity" pulling one away from virtue and toward selfish or destructive behaviors.

To bring this into a Parrothead perspective, one might see concupiscence as that part of us that's always looking for the next "party," sometimes at the expense of our better judgment. It's what can turn "Margaritaville" from a fun escape into a place of excess and potential moral hazard. Like a catchy tune, the allure is undeniable, but without moderation, it can lead us astray. Paul's struggle, his dual desire to do good while finding himself doing the opposite, echoes in many of Jimmy Buffett's songs, where characters often find themselves in situations their better judgment would have avoided. And isn't that a universal theme, the tension between our better angels and our more indulgent, sometimes self-destructive tendencies?

Additionally, the concept of Original Sin aligns well with Paul’s lament about the inherent sinful nature in humans. Just as every Parrothead knows that the paradise of "Margaritaville" has its pitfalls ("blew out my flip flop, stepped on a pop top"), Catholics acknowledge that humanity's perfect state was disrupted by the sin of Adam and Eve, creating a predilection toward sin. Confession and penance in are as ways to acknowledge these lapses and try to set the ship back on course.

The Sacraments, particularly Baptism and Reconciliation (Confession), as well as the practice of prayer and virtuous living, are ways to combat concupiscence. They act as the "compass and map," so to speak, helping the faithful to navigate the complexities of life's moral seascape. While concupiscence remains a lifelong challenge, the grace conferred through these sacraments strengthens the will against temptation.

While concupiscence and Original Sin are key factors in understanding why people sin. They serve as this inherent tendency or inclination to deviate from a virtuous path, making the struggle against sin an enduring endeavor. Like the sailor who must be ever vigilant against the shifting winds and currents, so too must individuals be aware of the pull of concupiscence in their moral lives. Paul's ultimate cry for deliverance through Jesus Christ parallels the Catholic focus on redemption and salvation through Christ's sacrifice. Just as we found solace, community, and even a kind of redemption in the shared joy of a Buffett concert or in the simple pleasures celebrated in his songs, us Catholics find our ultimate solace in the promise of redemption through Jesus Christ.

So, whether you're navigating the "Sea of Heartbreak" or trying to avoid being a "pirate looking at forty," the complexities of life, complete with its temptations and failings, are something that both Paul and Parrotheads sing about. The important part is the hope and belief that, through grace and perhaps a bit of 'nautical wisdom,' we can find our way back to where we are meant to be.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.

Lage Nom Ai - A Non-Conformist Plan

"Take care to guard against all greed,

for though one may be rich,

one's life does not consist of possessions." - Luke 12:13

How did Nordstrom find the courage to finally let go of the world, or maybe the world let go of him?

"Lage Nom Ai" is about facing life's struggles and challenges head-on, yet with a sense of humor and optimism. The title itself is a playful take on "L'âge N'om Aï," which is roughly translated from French as "the age I don't know," symbolizing a sense of lost identity or existential quandary.

My Challenges:

• Existential Questions: Why am I here? What are you calling me to do? The song touches on existential themes of suffering, purpose, and the meaning of life. The Church offers definite answers to these questions through the lens of faith, which could be at odds with the more laissez-faire approach to life's complexities implied by the song. Certainly it would be easy to throw your hands to the air and seek a hedonistic pleasure, but that leaves us so empty. We can pursue the worldly, but that still doesn't leave us truly rich?
• Reliance on Self: You got this, pull yourself up by your bootstraps, just do it. The song's emphasis on facing life's difficulties with humor and a stiff upper lip might suggest a more self-reliant approach, conflicts with our Catholic emphasis on divine grace and community as sources of strength in times of trial. We can't do it on our own. Just as Jesus in John Chapter 15 draws to light the essence of the True Vine, we can't do anything without our connection to our Lord. Paul knew it, in his letter to Philippians, "I can do all things through him who strengthens me." Why do we try to do it all on our own?
• Worldly Pleasures: Oh brother... it's not necessarily material possessions that possess me. It's the pleasures that would become the death of my soul. Today, Thursday of the 29th week of Ordinary Time; Romans 6:19-23

I am speaking in human terms because of the weakness of your nature.

For just as you presented the parts of your bodies as slaves to impurity

and to lawlessness for lawlessness,

so now present them as slaves to righteousness for sanctification.

For when you were slaves of sin, you were free from righteousness.

But what profit did you get then

from the things of which you are now ashamed?

For the end of those things is death.

But now that you have been freed from sin and have become slaves of God,

the benefit that you have leads to sanctification,

and its end is eternal life.

For the wages of sin is death,

but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Lessons from "Lage Nom Ai":

• Humor and Joy: One of the underlying messages of the song is to face challenges with humor and joy, an outlook that is compatible with Catholic teachings. In fact, many saints have emphasized the importance of joy in the spiritual life.
• Human Struggle: Both the song and Catholic teachings acknowledge the inevitability of human struggle. While the song may not offer spiritual solutions, it does align with the Catholic understanding that life involves suffering and challenges that must be faced, albeit with divine assistance in the context of faith.
• Personal Interpretation: A Catholic Parrothead might interpret the song as an allegory for the journey of faith, where one faces numerous challenges but persists, with the help of both divine grace and personal resilience.
• Community Support: The song's ethos of facing challenges with optimism can be aligned with the importance of community and fellowship in both Parrothead and Catholic circles. Such communal support is seen as a way to help individuals through their struggles, whether they are spiritual, emotional, or physical.
• Acknowledging Imperfection: The song's focus on life's challenges could serve as a reminder of the human tendency towards concupiscence, which Catholics believe can only be fully overcome through divine grace. It could encourage a Catholic Parrothead to seek spiritual sustenance and strength through prayer, the sacraments, and virtuous living.

"Lage Nom Ai" can be seen as a cultural artifact that speaks to the existential human condition, resonating with the sense of struggle that Catholic doctrine also acknowledges. The duality of being a Catholic Parrothead could manifest in how one reconciles the song's secular philosophy with the spiritual wisdom and moral teachings of the Church. The reconciliation would likely involve a nuanced understanding that finds value in both perspectives, integrating them into a cohesive worldview. Though this may lead to conflict as Jesus spoke of in Luke 12:49-53

Jesus said to his disciples:

"I have come to set the earth on fire,

and how I wish it were already blazing!

There is a baptism with which I must be baptized,

and how great is my anguish until it is accomplished!

Do you think that I have come to establish peace on the earth?

No, I tell you, but rather division.

From now on a household of five will be divided,

three against two and two against three;

a father will be divided against his son

and a son against his father,

a mother against her daughter

and a daughter against her mother,

a mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law

and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law."

Has Jesus called me to a non-conformist plan to save a ________ soul?

Everybody's on the Phone, So Connected Yet All Alone

Look I'm not against modern life, but the rise of technology, particularly digital and communication technology, has had a profound impact on interpersonal skills and social interaction. While technology offers unparalleled opportunities for information sharing, learning, and connectivity, it also presents challenges to the development and maintenance of interpersonal skills. Here are some reasons:

Reduced Face-to-Face Interaction:

The convenience of digital communication often replaces face-to-face interactions. This can hinder the development of social skills such as reading body language, understanding social cues, or interpreting tone of voice, all of which are essential for effective communication and relationship building.

Shortened Attention Spans:

The rapid pace of digital information and the bite-sized nature of social media content may contribute to shortened attention spans. This can make extended, meaningful conversations increasingly rare, affecting the depth of interpersonal relationships.

Impersonal Communication:

Texting, emailing, and other forms of digital communication are often less personal than speaking directly with someone. The absence of non-verbal cues like facial expressions and tone can lead to misunderstandings and a lack of emotional depth in conversations.

Social Isolation:

While technology can connect us with people worldwide, it can also create a sense of isolation. Virtual relationships may lack the emotional and psychological benefits derived from real-world social interactions, contributing to feelings of loneliness and social anxiety.

Focus on Self-Presentation:

Social media platforms encourage individuals to curate a specific image of themselves, which may not necessarily align with their real selves. This focus on self-presentation can detract from the authenticity required for meaningful interpersonal relationships.

Reduced Empathy:

The anonymity and physical distance that technology can provide may reduce empathy and increase negative behaviors like cyberbullying or trolling. These anti-social behaviors can inhibit the cultivation of compassionate, empathetic interpersonal skills.

Decreased Problem-Solving Skills:

In an age where answers to questions are just a quick Google search away, the ability to engage in deep thought, discussion, and problem-solving can be impaired. This has implications not just for intellectual development, but also for navigating social and emotional challenges in interpersonal relationships.

Screen Time Overload:

Excessive screen time can interfere with time spent in physical activities or social gatherings, which are venues for honing interpersonal skills.

Given my interest in ham radio as a hobby, I still appreciate the value of direct, albeit technologically mediated, at least that communication involves more real-time engagement. As a natural introvert the radio assists in helping me to develop a different set of interpersonal skills compared to digital texting or social media usage. Although I've been exploring the possibility of TikTok to evangelize the words of Jimmy Buffett for the sake of saving souls; the intense time compression makes this a formidable challenge. It's difficult enough just to manage my regular job which involves coordinating between different people and managing teams, that' I'm usually to "peopled out" to take on such an endeavor. Maybe one day...

Regardless of my personal communication failings, I'd hope it's clear that while technology offers numerous benefits, its impact on interpersonal skills is a complex issue that merits careful consideration. Balancing technological use with opportunities for genuine human interaction could be key to mitigating these effects. Afterall, Jesus didn't come to us with a text, email, or even the written word; no he was shared in an interpersonal way. We disciples are commanded: 

"Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age.” - Matt 28:19-20

Opus Dei for the Catholic Parrothead

While Opus Dei and the life of a Parrothead may seem oppositional on face, in reality they complement one another in some very unique and sanctifying ways. The teachings of St. Josemaría Escrivá, the founder of Opus Dei, and the lyrics of Jimmy Buffett songs offer contrasting yet complementary insights into life. One focuses on the sanctification of daily work and ordinary activities, while the other celebrates leisure, relaxation, and the joys of life. Here's how quotes from both could help explain their integration:

Finding Meaning in Ordinary Life

• Josemaría Escrivá: "Add a supernatural motive to your ordinary professional work, and you will have sanctified it."
• Jimmy Buffett: "It's those changes in latitudes, changes in attitudes, nothing remains quite the same."

Combining these perspectives could mean finding a supernatural or higher purpose in even the leisure activities and lifestyle changes celebrated in Buffett's songs. The change in "latitudes" and "attitudes" can be sanctified if approached with the right motive.

Balancing Work and Play

• Josemaría Escrivá: "You need a heart in love, not an easy life, to achieve happiness."
• Jimmy Buffett: "If we couldn't laugh, we would all go insane."

Escrivá suggests that an easy life is not the path to happiness but rather a loving heart. Buffett highlights the necessity of laughter, perhaps as a mechanism for maintaining sanity amidst the chaos of life. Together, they paint a picture of a life that is both earnest in its responsibilities and joyful in its freedoms.

The Importance of the Present Moment

• Josemaría Escrivá: "You are writing the story of your life one moment at a time."
• Jimmy Buffett: "Yesterday's over my shoulder, so I can't look back for too long. There's just too much to see waiting in front of me."

Both Escrivá and Buffett emphasize the importance of the present moment—Escrivá in the context of personal sanctification and Buffett in the context of life's adventures. Buffett's focus on the present and future aligns with Escrivá's notion that every moment is an opportunity for sanctification.

Living Ethically and Morally

• Josemaría Escrivá: "To be Christ himself, we must see ourselves in him. It's not enough to have a general idea of the spirit of Jesus; we have to learn the details of his life and, through them, his attitudes."
• Jimmy Buffett: "It's a fine line between Saturday night and Sunday morning."

Buffett's line evokes the ethical and moral dilemmas people face, particularly when it comes to balancing leisure activities with responsibilities. Escrivá's advice suggests that such balance can be found by modeling one's life after Jesus, learning his "details" and "attitudes" and incorporating them into one's own behavior.

By integrating these perspectives, a Catholic Parrothead could approach both leisure and work as opportunities for personal growth and sanctification. They might find that both Escrivá's emphasis on sanctifying the everyday and Buffett's celebration of life's joys can be part of a balanced, meaningful existence.

While some might see a tension between the serious spiritual focus of Opus Dei and the laid-back, leisure-oriented Parrothead lifestyle, it is certainly possible for the two to be integrated in a way that enriches both the spiritual and social aspects of a person's life.

Jesus to Peter to Bible

The relationship between Jesus, the Catholic Church, and the Bible is akin to the origin story of a legendary band: think of Jesus as the original frontman, the Church as the band that carries on his legacy, and the Bible as their greatest hits album.

Jesus as the Founder—The Original Frontman

First off, Jesus is like Jimmy Buffett, the central figure who started it all. He gathered His apostles—His "Coral Reefer Band"—and performed "live shows," if you will, teaching the Good News through parables, miracles, and sermons. The cornerstone moment was when He appointed Peter as the "lead guitarist," saying:

"You are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church" (Matthew 16:18)

This was like passing the torch—or in our case, the guitar pick—to ensure that the show would go on, even if He wasn't physically around.

The Catholic Church—The Band Carrying on the Legacy

After Jesus ascended into heaven, like a musician riding off into the tropical sunset, the apostles carried on His work, expanding the "fanbase" by spreading His teachings. They were the original Church Fathers—the "roadies and crew" who made sure the Church was built on a solid foundation. They defined dogmas, established rituals, and continued the sacramental practices Jesus had initiated, like the Eucharist, which is sort of like the "encore" that everyone waits for in a concert. Through apostolic succession, the Church keeps the "music" alive, generation after generation.

The Bible—The Greatest Hits Album

Now, the Bible is like that ultimate greatest hits album, but it didn't just drop out of the sky. The Church—inspired by the Holy Spirit—carefully compiled these "tracks" over centuries. Early councils like those of Hippo and Carthage in the late 4th century helped finalize what would be in the New Testament. These "divine tracks" contain the teachings, stories, and poetry that encapsulate the essence of the faith. Just like you wouldn't fully understand Jimmy Buffett without listening to his entire discography, you can't fully grasp Christianity without the Bible, created and safeguarded by the Catholic Church.

So, just as Jimmy Buffett's music would be incomplete without the Coral Reefer Band and the discography that has reached generations, the Catholic Church sees itself as an ongoing "concert," originally headlined by Jesus, whose teachings have been preserved and perpetuated through both the Church's Magisterium and the Bible. And for a Catholic Parrothead, that's a show where the tickets are always worth the price of admission, promising eternal joy and a paradise that's not just a state of mind but a heavenly reality.

Lord, you know my heart. I love you and adore you. I'm certainly no saint, and I'm full of flaws; but one day I hope to find rest in you.

We are the people our parents warned us about.

In Jimmy Buffett's song, "We Are the People Our Parents Warned Us About," there's an exploration of the imperfections, freedoms, and the often rebellious nature that comes with youth. The song acknowledges that we're all flawed, and yet there's something beautiful about embracing those flaws and learning from them. 

From a Catholic Parrothead perspective, seeking holiness is a lot like sailing through life's challenges: it's not about avoiding storms but learning how to navigate through them. Here's how we can tie this into our journey towards holiness:

Recognize Our Imperfections

Just as Buffett's song admits, we're the people our parents warned us about—we're not perfect. In Catholicism, this is the concept of original sin. Recognizing our flaws is the first step toward holiness, just as a sailor must recognize the currents and weather conditions to set sail safely.

Reconciliation and Redemption

The song’s acknowledgment of our imperfections mirrors the Sacrament of Reconciliation in Catholicism. Confession is not just about admitting our sins; it's a route to redemption, an acknowledgment that we're all works in progress. Buffett's often wayward characters always seem to find a measure of redemption, and so can we through the sacraments.

Living in Community

The laid-back Parrothead lifestyle and Buffett's lyrics often celebrate community and friendship. Similarly, the Catholic Church emphasizes the importance of community. Holiness is not a solo endeavor but something we seek together through acts of kindness, community service, and evangelization.

Celebrate the Joys of Life

Buffett’s music is, at its core, about the joy of living. Catholicism also celebrates life’s joys through its sacraments, festivals, and the concept of the Communion of Saints. Enjoying the good things in life responsibly can be a path to holiness, akin to celebrating at a Buffett concert but also knowing when it's time to head home.

Daily Acts of Love

Holiness is found in daily life, in small acts of kindness and love. Whether you're "nibblin' on sponge cake" or sharing a meal with the less fortunate, there's an opportunity to seek holiness in every action. A Catholic Parrothead knows that loving your neighbor can happen in a thousand small ways, and each one brings you closer to God.

Prayer and Reflection

Buffett's slower songs often offer a chance for reflection, a break from the revelry to ponder life's mysteries. Similarly, prayer and meditation are crucial in the Catholic path to holiness. Like a quiet song that changes the tempo of a boisterous playlist, moments of prayer offer respite and direction in our quest for holiness.

Embrace God's Forgiveness

In both Buffett's world and Catholic theology, forgiveness is key. God's mercy is infinite, and no one is beyond redemption. It's never too late to turn back, to take a different path in the journey toward holiness.

In essence, being a Catholic Parrothead teaches us that seeking holiness is not about perfection but about striving to live a good life, embracing our community, celebrating responsibly, and continually seeking God's grace and forgiveness. Just like attending a Buffett concert, it's about the journey as much as the destination.

Mixed Marriages

From the perspective of a Catholic Parrothead—a devout Catholic who also enjoys the laid-back, beachy lifestyle and music of Jimmy Buffett—the notion of a Catholic dating a Protestant might seem like mixing tequila and rum: not necessarily a bad thing, but something that needs to be approached with thoughtfulness and care. Please heed my warning... there are several reasons why a Catholic dating a Protestant is often discouraged.  Certainly there is an allowance for mixed marriages within the Church, you will in no doubt encounter some troubled waters. Here are some things to consider:

Theological Tropics

Island of Beliefs: Just like the difference between a Margaritaville and a beach bar, Catholics and Protestants have distinct core beliefs. Whether it's the Eucharist, saints, or the hierarchy of the Church, these aren't just small details; they're central tenets of faith. Knowing where you stand is crucial before diving into deeper waters.  Catholicism and Protestantism have foundational theological differences, including views on the Eucharist, the role of the Virgin Mary, and the structure of the Church, among others. These differing beliefs can be problematic in a relationship where faith is a central concern.

Kiddos in Paradise

Little Parakeets: If you're thinking of future "parakeets" (children), it's essential to remember that, in Catholicism, they should be raised in a Catholic nest. A Protestant partner might have different views, making your family's spiritual life less of a smooth sailing adventure and more of a navigational challenge. Catholics believe that it is essential to bring up children in the Catholic faith. A Protestant partner might not agree with or understand the importance of Catholic rituals like baptism, first communion, and confirmation.  Each tradition has its own set of morals, practices, and traditions. When it comes to raising children, these differences may complicate matters and create confusion for the children. In this crazy world, Jimmy said it best, "We need more fruitcakes in this world... We need people who care!" And nothing rivals a Catholic's care for this world.

Cheeseburgers and Community

Social Flock: Both Parrotheads and devout Catholics find joy in community. A relationship with a Protestant could make it trickier to be part of the Catholic "flock" as fully as you might wish, which could be like trying to jam to "Margaritaville" at a heavy metal concert. Being part of a Catholic community is often considered crucial for spiritual growth. A relationship with a Protestant may lead to social challenges and less integration into the Catholic community. You'll find more parrotheads at the local parish than your megachurch; we serve wine!

Soul's Latitude

Charting Spiritual Waters: For Catholics, certain devotional practices are like cherished Buffett songs that feed the soul. Having a Protestant partner might mean they don't get why you're so moved by the Rosary or a Eucharistic procession, just as they might not understand the magic of a Buffett concert under the stars. Practices like the Rosary, Eucharistic adoration, and the veneration of saints are often an integral part of a Catholic’s spiritual life. A Protestant partner might not understand or appreciate these practices, potentially stunting the Catholic individual’s spiritual growth.

Nautical Rules

Maritime Laws of the Church: From a "legal" standpoint, Catholics need to get the Church's approval for a mixed marriage, like getting a boating license for international waters. It's doable but requires extra steps. From a canonical standpoint, Catholics are obligated to marry in the Catholic Church and to obtain permission from their bishop to marry a non-Catholic. This can be an administrative burden and can make the process more complicated than marrying another Catholic. Catholic teaching views marriage as a sacrament, whereas many Protestant denominations do not share this view. The differing perspectives on marriage could create tension. Hey, but when it comes to a Catholic in marriage, there is no jumping off the ship!

Although there are concerns, being a Parrothead teaches us about the beauty of various ports of call and the possibility of finding unity in diversity. Love, respect, and a willingness to address challenges head-on are essential, whether you're navigating religious differences or deciding what tune to play next. Life’s a voyage, after all, and the right partner can help you enjoy the journey, wherever it may lead.

"The Eucharist is my highway to Heaven" - Carlo Acutis

 

Carlo Acutis was born in 1991, part of the millennial generation. He was born to wealthy parents, who were not religious, yet he from an early age, he exhibited a keen interest in adoration for the Eucharist, how fitting is it that in this time of Eucharistic revival, we call to mind the life of a remarkable young man.

Beatified in October 2020, he was notable for his profound faith and devotion to the Eucharist. Although he passed away at the age of 15 due to leukemia, his impact on Catholic spirituality, particularly regarding the veneration of the Eucharist, has been immense. Carlo is often described as a young person who managed to harmonize faith with modern life seamlessly. He was an avid computer programmer, but what set him apart was how he utilized his tech-savvy skills for spiritual enrichment. One of his most remarkable achievements was cataloging all the Eucharistic miracles around the world in a website. His devotion to the Eucharist was such that he would often say, "The Eucharist is my highway to Heaven," indicating his belief in the Eucharist as the pivotal element of his spiritual journey.

Carlo's dedication to the Eucharist was not only in cataloging miracles but also in practicing Eucharistic adoration. From a young age, he developed the habit of attending daily Mass and spending time in Eucharistic adoration. Adoration involves sitting or kneeling in front of the Eucharist, typically displayed in a monstrance, and engaging in prayer, contemplation, study, or silent worship. Think of it as spending time with Our Father. It is a devotional exercise that allows the faithful to experience a deeper sense of communion with God. For Carlo, it was an essential component of his daily life, and he credited it with bringing him closer to God.

Eucharistic adoration allowed Carlo to integrate his spiritual life into his everyday activities seamlessly. It was a sanctuary of contemplation where he drew the strength and inspiration that fueled his other endeavors. This spiritual practice is highly recommended for fostering a deeper relationship with Jesus Christ, present in the Eucharist. Carlo often emphasized the importance of Eucharistic adoration to his peers and family, suggesting that it held transformative power for those willing to commit time to it.

Carlo's engagement with the internet stands as a notable aspect of his legacy. He was keenly aware of the reach and impact that digital platforms could have, especially among young people. He used his programming skills to create a website that documented Eucharistic miracles around the world. This was a groundbreaking endeavor, bringing together theology, history, and modern technology in a way that made complex and sometimes abstract aspects of faith accessible to people of all ages.

Carlo's website serves as a lasting repository that chronicles occurrences where the Eucharist was reported to have turned into real flesh and blood, often substantiated by scientific investigations. By bringing these miracles into the digital sphere, he effectively reached an audience that might not otherwise engage with such topics. It was a way to evangelize and bear witness to the faith without imposing it, aligning with the Church's call for a "New Evangelization" that adapts timeless truths to the current cultural landscape.

Carlo's devotion to the Eucharist was multifaceted, characterized by both personal adoration and public evangelization. His habit of Eucharistic adoration symbolized his personal communion with God, while his digital endeavors aimed to share the miracles and mysteries of the Eucharist with a broader audience. His life serves as a compelling example of how traditional practices like Eucharistic adoration can be integrated into modern lives, and how the internet can be leveraged to disseminate age-old truths to a new generation.

There’s a lot we can gain from examining the life of this young man. Spending time in adoration this so beneficial to our soul. With all the noise and complexities of daily life, it gives us a brief respite and allows us to hone in on those voices, that stir our soul. I especially appreciate how Carlo integrated his daily life into Eucharistic adoration. He certainly had talents, and did not squander them away as so many of us. Instead of using his as a computer programmer to create evermore distractions, he put them towards good..

By the way, Carlo wished to be buried in Assisi.  When he was exhumed, his body was found to be incorruptible. It looks like he just fell asleep. 

Carlo Acutis, pray for us. 

Saint Faustina - Jesus I Trust in You

 

St Faustina has always been challenging for me.  Whereas St Francis of Assisi seemed like the guy I'd love to have a beer with and chat while building something or petting a dog.  St Faustina on the other hand is that type where back when I was more "worldly", I'd hide my drinks and smokes from the sightline, as to not catch a critical glare. She scares the hell out of me, not out of fear of injury, but out of guilt. Honestly, she's the type that I could hear whispering in my ear, "Chris, you know what's right, now let your conscience be your guide."  Dang it sister, that's far more harsh than just telling us the way it is, I'd rather have an enraged woman yelling at me than the calm demeanor of her. Seriously, look at pictures of her, those eyes could cut through a steel, in reality that gaze cuts through my veneer of BS.

Saint Faustina, was a Polish nun and mystic in the early 20th century. She is known for her diary, which recounts her visions and conversations with Jesus Christ. Through these mystical experiences, she received the message of Divine Mercy, emphasizing God’s boundless love and forgiveness. The phrase "Jesus, I Trust in You" became the fulcrum of this Divine Mercy, and it’s a phrase that has given solace and hope to millions. So impactful is it, that Pope JPII declared the Sunday after Easter to be Divine Mercy Sunday.  On a side note, as a kid, the Sunday after Easter was always my Dad's favorite because it contained the story of Thomas, an easily relatable figure for him.

You know, I find it easy to comprehend life lounging around in a chair, maybe having a cold drink or two or more.  And when I get myself into this pseudo-intellectual state, my philosophical thoughts on life can range from existential to hedonistic, undeniably I'll find a blend of whimsy and wisdom, only appropriate for us inappropriate.  It's this fascinating dichotomy that reminds me of the profound impact of the phrase "Jesus, I Trust in You."

For parrotheads, NDNs, and latinos, the concept of "island time", "Indian time" and "mañana", is a state of mind where the rush and urgency of daily life are set aside for a focus on the here and now. Similarly, trusting in a higher power, as encapsulated by Saint Faustina's famous phrase, can bring a profound sense of peace. Just like mañana lets us relish each sip of a cool drink, saying "Jesus, I Trust in You" anchors us in a moment of divine trust that lets us breathe, let go, and simply be.

Life isn’t always a party. It comes with its share of hurricanes—both meteorological and metaphorical. Saint Faustina's writing about weathering spiritual and emotional tempests, the essence is the same: a calm center can be found if we look for it. "Jesus, I Trust in You" serves as a spiritual anchor, holding steadfast amidst the waves of doubt, anxiety, and turmoil.

At first glance, the world of a devout Catholic saint and that of Parrothead might seem an ocean apart. But the closer we look, the more we see that they both offer paths to personal solace and universal love. Saint Faustina offers a spiritual sojourn to anyone willing to utter a simple phrase in a moment of need. The real challange is the words are so easy to say with the mouth, but oh so difficult with the heart. Each time I say it, I hear a little voice echo back, "Yeah, but do you really? Do you really trust in me?" Ugh... man it'd be so much easier if I didn't have a conscience... (Just kidding Lord).

Anyways as we bumble our way through life, balancing earthly pleasures with a thirst for something greater, the teachings of Saint Faustina—especially the transformative power of the phrase "Jesus, I Trust in You"—offers a nautical chart for the soul. It reminds us that even in the most turbulent of waters, a guiding principle can keep us steady. So, the next time your caught in a reflective moment while watching the sunset, remember that life’s complexities can often be navigated with simple truths, no matter the latitude.

Jesus I Trust in You

Rebuild My Church - Feast Day of St Francis of Assisi

 

Today is the Feast of St. Francis of Assisi, and I was thinking about how a parrothead is all about that laid-back lifestyle, right? Surly as a good catholic you must have heard about St. Francis of Assisi and his famous call to "Rebuild My Church". When St. Francis heard that call, he knew he had to do something transformative. At first he was like, "OK, I'll rebuilt that church", and went to work. Then he discovered it wasn't just about fixing up an old building; it was about making things better on a deeper level. Kinda like how we find renewal in a Buffett song after a long work week or how we get back to basics hanging out with family. We can take this "rebuilding" idea to heart.  It not just about doing something external, it's also internal; not about doing things on our own, but also with community.

But wait, there's more...  this "rebuild" stuff is also about diving a little deeper into what makes life meaningful. Afterall, Jimmy Buffett's songs aren't all flip-flops and margaritas; there's wisdom in those lyrics, man. St. Francis reminds us to mix in some soul-searching along with our fun. We can be laid-back and still have depth, enjoying the moment while also thinking about the big picture.

So, next time you're sipping on a "Margaritaville" margarita and Jimmy's strumming that six-string, remember that the call to "Rebuild My Church" is a call to all of us. It's a call to make things better, to find a balance between earthly pleasures and higher principles. Whether we're on the Coast, at a concert, or just hanging with friends and family, let's take that spirit of St. Francis and make our own little slice of paradise even better. Fins Up! 🦜🍹

Mary, the Untier of Knots: The Devotion that Could Be a Parrothead's Saving Grace

Hey Fins Up, fellow Parrotheads! Amidst our love for tropical escapism, Jimmy Buffett tunes, and the laid-back lifestyle, we often encounter life's "knots"—those tricky situations or dilemmas that get us all tangled up. Well, did you know there's a devotion in the Catholic faith that speaks to exactly this? Enter Mary, the Untier of Knots, the celestial figure who might just be the Margaritaville of spirituality.

This devotion started making waves primarily in the 18th century. The whole idea got a major boost from Pope Francis, who was a fan of the devotion even before he took the papal stage. Picture this: A painting from around 1700 shows the Virgin Mary, surrounded by angels, actually untying a knotted ribbon. It's like Mary is our spiritual bartender, helping to untangle the complications in our lives one knot at a time.

We Parrotheads know a thing or two about navigating life's complexities, often with a margarita in hand. But Mary, the Untier of Knots, offers another kind of "spirit" to lean on. In Catholicism, she's not seen as a divine magician but more like that motherly figure who has your back when the tide gets rough. She helps you row your boat back to clearer waters, guiding you closer to a divine sense of purpose and peace.

If you've got some life knots you're struggling to untie—maybe it's that challenging job, a tricky relationship, or a spiritual question—this devotion offers a way to work through it. Think of it as a spiritual Cheeseburger in Paradise, offering sustenance and comfort for the soul. Identify your "knots," offer them up in prayer, and let the faith vibes guide you toward resolution and peace.

Let's face it, our boat is often rocked by challenges—personal, social, you name it. And while our Buffett tunes provide an escape, sometimes we need something more, something deeper. That's where Mary, the Untier of Knots, comes in. She's the spiritual life preserver in our ocean of complexities, offering a sense of hope that even the toughest knots can be untied.

So, whether you're sipping on a margarita or pondering life's mysteries, remember that there's a devotion out there that aligns surprisingly well with the Parrothead philosophy. Mary, the Untier of Knots, offers a way to confront and untangle life's challenges, providing not just a spiritual escape but a path to genuine resolution. In a world where everyone could use a bit more peace and fewer tangles, she might just be the spiritual harbor we've been sailing toward.

 

Novena to Our Lady Undoer of Knots - Day 1

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.
Oh my God I am heartily sorry for having offended you. I detest all my sins because I dread the loss of Heaven and the pains of Hell. But most of all, because I offended you, oh my God, who are all good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of your grace, to confess my sins, to do penance, and to amend my life. Amen

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots


Meditation for Day 1


Dearest Holy Mother, Most Holy Mary, you undo the knots that suffocate your children, extend your merciful hands to me. I entrust to You today this knot....and all the negative consequences that it provokes in my life. I give you this knot that torments me and makes me unhappy and so impedes me from uniting myself to You and Your Son Jesus, my Savior.
I run to You, Mary, Undoer of Knots because I trust you and I know that you never despise a sinning child who comes to ask you for help. I believe that you can undo this knot because Jesus grants you everything. I believe that you want to undo this knot because you are my Mother. I believe that You will do this because you love me with eternal love.

Thank you, Dear Mother.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

The one who seeks grace, finds it in Mary's hands.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)

Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 2

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots



Meditation for Day 2


Mary, Beloved Mother, channel of all grace, I return to You today my heart, recognizing that I am a sinner in need of your help. Many times I lose the graces you grant me because of my sins of egoism, pride, rancor and my lack of generosity and humility. I turn to You today, Mary, Undoer of knots, for You to ask your Son Jesus to grant me a pure, divested, humble and trusting heart. I will live today practicing these virtues and offering you this as a sign of my love for You. I entrust into Your hands this knot (...describe) which keeps me from reflecting the glory of God.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

Mary offered all the moments of her day to God.

PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)

Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 3

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots

Meditation for Day 3

Meditating Mother, Queen of heaven, in whose hands the treasures of the King are found, turn your merciful eyes upon me today. I entrust into your holy hands this knot in my life...and allthe rancor and resentment it has caused in me. I ask Your forgiveness, God the Father, for my sin. Help me now to forgive all the persons who consciously or unconsciously provoked this knot. Give me, also, the grace to forgive me for having provoked this knot. Only in this way can You undo it. Before You, dearest Mother, and in the name of Your Son Jesus, my Savior, who has suffered so many offenses, having been granted forgiveness, I now forgive these persons...and myself, forever. Thank you, Mary, Undoer of Knots for undoing the knot of rancor in my heart and the knot which I now present to you. Amen.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

Turn to Mary, you who desire grace.

PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)

Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 4

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots


Meditation for Day 4

Dearest Holy Mother, you are generous with all who seek you, have mercy on me. I entrust into your hands this knot which robs the peace of my heart, paralyzes my soul and keeps me from going to my Lord and serving Him with my life.
Undo this knot in my love...., O mother, and ask Jesus to heal my paralytic faith which gets down hearted with the stones on the road. Along with you, dearest Mother, may I see these stones as friends. Not murmuring against them anymore but giving endless thanks for them, may I smile trustingly in your power.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

Mary is the Sun and no one is deprived of her warmth.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)

Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 5

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots


Meditation for Day 5

Mother, Undoer of Knots, generous and compassionate, I come to You today to once again entrust this knot...in my life to you and to ask the divine wisdom to undo, under the light of the Holy Spirit, this snarl of problems. No one ever saw you angry; to the contrary, your words were so charged with sweetness that the Holy Spirit was manifested on your lips. Take away from me the bitterness, anger and hatred which this knot has caused me. Give me, o dearest Mother, some of the sweetness and wisdom that is all silently reflected in your heart. And just as you were present at Pentecost, ask Jesus to send me a new presence of the Holy Spirit at this moment in my life. Holy Spirit, come upon me!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

Mary, with God, is powerful.

PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)


Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 6

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots



Meditation for Day 6


Queen of Mercy, I entrust to you this knot in my life...and I ask you to give me a heart that is patient until you undo it. Teach me to persevere in the living word of Jesus, in the Eucharist, the Sacrament of Confession; stay with me and prepare my heart to celebrate with the angels the grace that will be granted to me. Amen! Alleluia!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

You are beautiful, Mary, and there is no stain of sin in You.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)


Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 7

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots



Meditation for Day 7


Mother Most Pure, I come to You today to beg you to undo this knot in my life...and free me from the snares of Evil. God has granted you great power over all the demons. I renounce all of them today, every connection I have had with them and I proclaim Jesus as my one and only Lord and Savior. Mary, Undoer of Knots, crush the evil one's head and destroy the traps he has set for me by this knot. Thank you, dearest Mother. Most Precious Blood of Jesus, free me!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

You are the glory of Jerusalem, the joy of our people.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)


Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 8

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots



Meditation for Day 8


Virgin Mother of God, overflowing with mercy, have mercy on your child and undo this knot...in my life. I need your visit to my life, like you visited Elizabeth. Bring me Jesus, bring me the Holy Spirit. Teach me to practice the virtues of courage, joyfulness, humility and faith, and, like Elizabeth, to be filled with the Holy Spirit. Make me joyfully rest on your bosom, Mary. I consecrate you as my mother, Queen and friend. I give you my heart and everything I have (my home and family, my material and spiritual goods.) I am yours forever. Put your heart in me so that I can do everything Jesus tells me.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.

Let us go, therefore, full of trust, to the throne of grace.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)


Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me

Day 9

1. Make the sign of the cross

2. Say the Act of Contrition. Ask pardon for your sins and make a firm promise not to commit them again.

3. Say the first 3 decades of the Rosary.

4. Make the meditation of the day (to be posted each day)

5. Say the last 2 decades of the rosary

6. Finish with the Prayer to Our Lady the Undoer of Knots



Meditation for Day 9


Most Holy Mary, our Advocate, Undoer of Knots, I come today to thank you for undoing this knot in my life...You know very well the suffering it has caused me. Thank you for coming, Mother, with your long fingers of mercy to dry the tears in my eyes; you receive me in your arms and make it possible for me to receive once again the divine grace.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, dearest Mother, I thank you for undoing the knots in my life. Wrap me in your mantle of love, keep me under your protection, enlighten me with your peace! Amen.

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me.


PRAYER TO MARY, UNDOER OF KNOTS (Closing Prayer)


Virgin Mary, Mother of fair love, Mother who never refuses to come to the aid of a child in need, Mother whose hands never cease to serve your beloved children because they are moved by the divine love and immense mercy that exists in your heart, cast your compassionate eyes upon me and see the snarl of knots that exist in my life.
You know very well how desperate I am, my pain and how I am bound by these knots.
Mary, Mother to whom God entrusted the undoing of the knots in the lives of His children, I entrust into your hands the ribbon of my life.
No one, not even the evil one himself, can take it away from your precious care. In your hands there is no knot that cannot be undone.
Powerful Mother, by your grace and intercessory power with Your Son and My Liberator, Jesus, take into your hands today this knot...I beg you to undo it for the glory of God, once for all, You are my hope.
O my Lady, you are the only consolation God gives me, the fortification of my feeble strength, the enrichment of my destitution and with Christ the freedom from my chains.
Hear my plea.
Keep me, guide me, protect me, o safe refuge!

Mary, Undoer of Knots, pray for me